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Fighting Cancer

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In today's world, most everyone knows of a person suffering from cancer. It may be a loved one, a close friend, or just someone you know at church or from your kids school. The closer they are to you, the harder that initial punch is to the gut.  For me, the hardest punch came from my sister. She said "I have stage four breast cancer." I thought my heart was going to break. Then I said, "Well, let's start fighting".
And fight she did. She underwent a double mastectomy, chemotherapy, and radiation. For a year and a half, it was a constant battle for her. Just to muster enough energy for the therapy appointments, living on popsicles because that was all she could keep down, trying to keep up her spirits and keep smiling...when all she wanted was for life to feel normal again.  Her life was forever changed. She had to find her new "normal".
But she made it. She had beat it. She had won and life was getting better. Then, it returned. This time in he…

American Discord...Just a Southern Girl's Thoughts on the Virginia Shooting

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After watching the horrible events unfold this morning, I can no longer be silent. I am not one to publicly debate politics or religion, and this post is about neither. Our country has been in discord for quite some time and seemingly, only getting worse. Now, you can blame Obama for that, or Trump, or Republicans, or Democrats, or global warming, or gay rights, or any number of hot political issues right now.

However, in my opinion, the blame can not be shouldered by an individual or a cause alone. But the blame should not be our focus here. The focus should be a solution to this discord.

Surprise Visit from a Newfound Friend

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At our little house, our backyard consists of some beautifully wooded land. Someone with a lot of forethought cut out a few different trails that we have been exploring since we moved here. My kids, husband, and I love to walk these trails, particularly during Fall or Spring when the colors are changing so wonderfully!there is always something new to see or find at every turn. But this one particular day, something found us!

Our Welcome to Summer Party

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Every year the last day of school before summer vacation is a busy one for me. But it is, also, one of the best days. We celebrate it like a holiday, doesn't everyone? After all, this is the kids favorite day, after birthdays and Christmas right? Summer vacation should be celebrated! And it is so easy to do. With just a little bit of work and planning on my end, the bright smiles and excitement of my kids as they get off the bus makes it all worth it!
As soon as the kids leave for school my preparations start. Each year varies a little on the activities but here is the general breakdown of what I do and what you can do, too!

1. Make a banner. This is simple to do but it is the first thing the kids see as the bus drives up. Many years ago, I lucked up at a garage sale and found an almost full huge roll of plain brown craft paper. I have used it now for 7 years (talk about a great investment)! But you can use just a dollar roll of wrapping paper just as well. It needs to be long en…

Perceptions

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"You need to discipline better!" "She is too smart to act like that."  "Her bad behavior and angry attitude is a choice." "A good spanking will cure that." "If he can't sit still, he doesn't need to be here." "What's wrong with him?"
These are just a few of the many phrases that I have heard through the years.  I've heard them in school, from teachers, at church, from friends, extended family, and from total strangers. And yes, they cut to my core. I hurt for my children and fear what words they may face in the future.  If people can say these things to my face, what are they saying behind my back?
I have two beautiful children both with their own special needs or disabilities. However, in my house, we call them their super powers.  Oh yeah, that's right. We celebrate their differences.  We focus on what can be done, what can be improved upon, and we persevere. 
But this article is about perceptions.  …

Southern Traditions

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Let me say that I am a Southern girl and very proud of it.  Always have been.  I love Mississippi, the state, the people, and everything about it. Let me, also, say that I can be very niave in my little world.  I thought that certain traditions were the norm.  But I have recently figured out that some traditions are just born and raised in the deep South.  Like me, they have never really ventured far from home.  This made me start thinking about our "legacy" as a state and our future since certain events have unfolded here in the past couple of weeks.


My beautiful home state of Mississippi has been looked down upon by others in our great nation for a very long time.  We have been called racists, red necks, hicks, barefoot and pregnant, trailer trash...the list could go on and on.  Numerous movies have been made here and books written, showing the southern way of life to be that of secrets, lies, and outright racial bigotry.  I realize that our state (along with every other …

A Country Girl's Rite of Passage Continues

I am so sorry this has taken so long to finish but, hey, my chaotic life got in the way!  But I am back and ready to rock and roll!  If you haven't read the first part of this story, or if you need to be reminded since I took so long to finish, you can read it here!