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Our Welcome to Summer Party

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Every year the last day of school before summer vacation is a busy one for me. But it is, also, one of the best days. We celebrate it like a holiday, doesn't everyone? After all, this is the kids favorite day, after birthdays and Christmas right? Summer vacation should be celebrated! And it is so easy to do. With just a little bit of work and planning on my end, the bright smiles and excitement of my kids as they get off the bus makes it all worth it!
As soon as the kids leave for school my preparations start. Each year varies a little on the activities but here is the general breakdown of what I do and what you can do, too!

1. Make a banner. This is simple to do but it is the first thing the kids see as the bus drives up. Many years ago, I lucked up at a garage sale and found an almost full huge roll of plain brown craft paper. I have used it now for 7 years (talk about a great investment)! But you can use just a dollar roll of wrapping paper just as well. It needs to be long en…

Perceptions

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"You need to discipline better!" "She is too smart to act like that."  "Her bad behavior and angry attitude is a choice." "A good spanking will cure that." "If he can't sit still, he doesn't need to be here." "What's wrong with him?"
These are just a few of the many phrases that I have heard through the years.  I've heard them in school, from teachers, at church, from friends, extended family, and from total strangers. And yes, they cut to my core. I hurt for my children and fear what words they may face in the future.  If people can say these things to my face, what are they saying behind my back?
I have two beautiful children both with their own special needs or disabilities. However, in my house, we call them their super powers.  Oh yeah, that's right. We celebrate their differences.  We focus on what can be done, what can be improved upon, and we persevere. 
But this article is about perceptions.  …